[This series is "The 9 Marks of a Calvinist Cult" split up into smaller, individual posts.] (Merry Christmas, everyone! Hope you have a blessed holiday season.) 8. Silencing the members' inner voices Gaslighting: manipulating people into doubting their own sanity, memory, or powers of reasoning. And "manipulating people into doubting their own power of reasoning" is what Calvinists do (even if they don't mean to). It's one of the reasons it spreads so unopposed, so easily. In addition to manipulative-shaming, Calvinists have ways of getting us to doubt our abilities to correctly think, judge, and understand things. They make us feel like if we disagree with Calvinism, then there's something wrong with us , not with their theology. This causes us to question our discernment and to possibly ignore any doubts or "red flags" we get. (Or at least to keep quiet about them because we fear others distrust...