Does Believing in Predestination Affect Our Prayers for People's Salvation?
(Part of the "Predestination vs. Free-Will" series)
Yes, very much so.
If you are a Calvinist and you believe that God Himself sovereignly chooses whether someone should go to heaven or hell, how would you pray for that person's salvation? You'd have to pray something like, "Dear God, please choose this person to be saved. Make them believe in You. But it's up to You if they are saved or not. And if it's not Your Will, then I guess I will have to accept it."
And you'd be praying this knowing that it doesn't matter if you pray it or not. Because you can't affect God's "predetermined" plans either way. But, hooray for you, at least you are going through the motions, like a good Calvinist. Even though God Himself caused you to go through the motions, since Calvinism believes that God controls all we do.
But if you believe that God desires all people to come to Him but that people have to decide for themselves, you'd pray much differently wouldn't you?
When I pray for people's salvation, I pray things like, "Dear Heavenly Father, please put Your saving Truth in so-and-so's path. Surround them with your heavenly angels to keep evil away from them, to prevent evil from blinding them, from confusing them, from distracting them from Your truth. Help them to see the Truth, to understand it, and to realize that it's just what they need. Help them to realize what's missing in their lives, to see their need for You, to realize that there is more to life than just what they can see, that there is an eternity out there and a supernatural world. I humbly ask that, in Your mercy, You do not hand them over to the hardness of their heart, even though they have resisted You. Continue to put Your truth in their path. Make it so overwhelmingly clear that they can recognize Your efforts to reach them."
I try to pray with mankind's free-will in mind, with the fact that people have the right and responsibility to choose for themselves. (You can also pray that God brings you the opportunity to share the Gospel with them.)
I don't think it's accurate or effective to pray that God would will to save so-and-so. Because I think God does will that all people be saved. He wants all people to be saved. But He's left it up to us to respond to Him or to resist Him.
But I do think it's much more effective to pray that God provides the best circumstances possible - to get someone into a position where they can see His efforts to reach them and realize their need for Him and understand that they are responsible for their choice about Him.
I did this for a friend once, praying that God would put His truth directly in her path and give her the eyes to see it, the mind to understand it. And she told me later that she found a Christian pamphlet explaining the way to salvation ... on the floor by her feet ... in the stall of a public restroom. She became a believer soon after.
God has mysterious - and funny - ways of working sometimes.
But all this makes me wonder ... How effective are our prayers going to be if they are based on a wrong understanding of how God works? Just a thought. (And what are some other ways our beliefs about this topic - about Calvinism and if God micromanages everything - affect our prayers and the way we live out our faith?)
First post in the series: Is Our Eternity Decided For Us?