(Oh, how we love nonsense in our country!) We women are fighting so hard to be like men, to downplay femininity, to be perceived as more masculine, to overtake any "men's realm" we find. Because it’s “cool” and “progressive” and “strong.” But do we not realize that we are not “leveling the playing field” so much as we are destroying ourselves , the things that make women special? Women can be strong, too. And they don’t have to be like men to do it. Trust me, I know. I've had four children, one by c-section and three by natural, drug-free homebirth (with over 15 hours of labor for each one). And then I work in the home every day, all day long. No pay. No vacation time. No weekends off. No bonuses. No overtime pay. But I do it because my family and I value my position, my role. Even if the world doesn't. W e women can be strong and capable and accomplished in our...
[I intended to do a post like this later in a Spiritual Warfare series, but since it's relevant right now to someone I know ... and since it's been so long since I've added to this series... I'll publish it now. Previous posts in this series are "My Story" ... "Be strong in the Lord" ... Spiritual Warfare sermons by Tony Evans ... "Stay on the Path" ... "Underestimating ourselves/overestimating Satan" ... "Overestimating ourselves/underestimating Satan" ... #1 Satan's Schemes (unbelief, sin, fear) ... #2 (fear, psychics, prayer) ... #3 (vulnerable in good times) ... Spiritual Warfare: Resources ... #4 (vulnerable in bad times )... #5 (innocence, naivete) ... #6 (half-truths) ... #7 (bad theology) ... #8 (deserts) ... #9 (bitterness, unforgiveness) ... and (for fun) "Scariest Halloween decoration ever?" I'll break this post up into several parts over the next several weeks. Much of these posts wil...
Before I get to the list of my "sword of the Spirit" verses, here's a list I shared with my struggling family member of some of my favorite songs to get through the hard times, the ones that encourage me and make me cry in a good way, in a needed way. (Sometimes anxiety is a sign that we need a good, long cry.) When you have no energy left to even pray, let the worship songs from other people be your prayers: From The City Harmonic: "Oh, What Love" , "Fell Apart" , "Honestly" , "Praise the Lord" , "Love, Heal Me," "My God," and "Here and There." ( Their music is what kept me from giving up completely when I was at my lowest. Let their words be your prayers, your heart's cry, when you have no words of your own left.) From Tenth Avenue North: "Worn" , "Hold My Heart" , "By Your Side" , and "Healing Begins" . From Jeremy Riddle: ...
(I recently fixed the broken links as well as I could, had to switch some out for others) Tony Evans is my all-time favorite pastor. He always gives messages that convict, challenge, and comfort. Here are some sermons that I have listened to or am going to listen to. For more, simply go to his website by clicking here . There are so many great ones to choose from. You can't go wrong with any video of his. I found him to be the most biblically-accurate preacher (especially as I researched Calvinism and found out how wrong it is), who is also great at helping us practically apply God's truths to life. Reversing Anxiety Consequences Keeping the faith when life gets hard Trusting God in a storm How to have strength in your struggles How to overcome your worry How to Get Your Prayers Answered Trusting The God You Believe In God knows what He is doing How the enemy tries to distract you from God's plan Grab your sword The Secret to Powerful Prayer Spiritual W...
(Written 6/15/18) Occasionally, I check in with the Christian Post to see what's going on in the world that specifically relates to Christians. And generally, I've never really had any red flags go up about this website ... until now. A recent article by Stoyan Zaimov, with a title that starts "Christian Lesbian rock star ..." goes on to share this woman's story about being assaulted by a male priest when she was young. However, I don't think the reason for this article is to talk about the abuse she suffered and her courage in speaking up. I think this is a deliberate attempt to affirm Christian homosexuality. The very fact that they put "Christian" and "lesbian" in the title makes it sound like it's indeed possible to be a Christian and a practicing homosexual who sees no need to change. And it seems to me that this article paints her in a heroic light, as though she is in the right and should be applauded and e...
I found a lot more names to add to my list of known Calvinists (found in my various "How to Tell if a Church, Pastor, or Website is Calvinist" posts). But instead of adding this huge list to all those posts, I am going to put it here, and I'll just provide a link on those posts to this one. [FYI: I added a note at the bottom of this post on May 5, 2021.] So here it is, a "master list" of known Calvinists to help you be careful and discerning about who you listen to and where you get your theology from. There are plenty more Calvinists out there, but these are just the names that I ran across the most. These are either definite, self-professed Calvinists or "most likely Calvinist," in my estimation. (I haven't heard of most of them, but it's good to know their theology before I do.) After finding these names in various places online, I looked up each person to see if they are Calvinist. If they did not self-identify ...
I just about had a panic attack a couple days ago, Oct 2. I could feel things spiraling in my mind, in my stomach. I felt like I was going to completely lose it. And all over a very small issue (a cavity in my son's tooth that needed to get filled), but it's an issue I've had a phobia about for the past decade or so. And although my husband can't understand it, th is issue triggers so much for me - my fear of failure, discouragement over trying so hard yet failing anyway, my fears over whether we are eating healthy enough or not (we eat pretty healthy, but it used to be healthier), my extreme fear over losing control (that feeling of having to keep all the balls in the air, and if you drop even one, it's all going to crash down around you), my fear over what the future holds and what I can and can't control, my extreme fear that Jesus won't come back soon and we'll have to stay in this place for a lot longer, my fear over if I will have the streng...
So, there's this article out (an opinion piece in the Toronto Star) about how "eating at Chick-fil-A will increase the suffering of queer kids." And I say, " What? " First off, if chicken sandwiches have the power to hurt "queer" folk, then maybe those "queer" folks need to toughen up a bit. Life is a lot more cruel than a chicken sandwich will ever be. And secondly, if chicken sandwiches from Chick-fil-A have the power to hurt queer people, it's only because the LGBTQ-community made it that way. Guess what Chick-fil-A sandwiches used to be - before the LGBTQ-warmongers started freaking out about Chick-fil-A, before they turned chicken sandwiches into a political statement, before they started quivering, hyperventilating, and screaming at the top of their lungs about how hateful Chick-fil-A is? Go ahead, take a guess? That's right ... they were just chicken sandwiches . And they would still be c...
(R eposted from a few years ago, updated slightly. Part of the "End Times" series.) It’s amazing and disturbing how brazen our society is in attacking everything about God and everything He created: marriage, monogamy, sex, family, sexuality, the scientific reality of gender, morality, modesty, the value of a person, the right to life, the existence of "right and wrong," the Bible, Jesus, and Absolute Truth. Not to mention God Himself, His very existence. We are destroying everything associated with Him (except nature – we worship that), and then we call ourselves "progressive." But you know what I think about it all? I think that God is letting it happen because He is drawing lines in the sand. Through all these divisive issues and all the immorality, God is saying “Pick a side! I am forcing you to decide which side you want to be on ... because I am coming back soon to take My people out of here. So I need you all to decide: ...
(This "Things My Calvinist Pastor Said" series is a breakdown on this much longer post: "We Left Our Church Because of Calvinism," which was written last year but updated July 2020. They are almost exact quotes. All memes were created with imgflip .) 8. "Man is oblivious to his sin.... People have tried over the years to make up for their sins in their own way, giving sacrifices to gods, following laws, etc..... God is not pleased with our attempts to make up for our sins on our own. " Question: If "unregenerated" men (as Calvinists define it) are so oblivious to their sin, how on earth could unsaved people try to make up for their sins on their own, when they are supposedly completely unaware of their sins to begin with? (Calvinism is a self-defeating, contradictory theology!) And Calvinism believes that God causes everything that happens ... for Hi...