[Here's the tiniest version of my "But predestination!" post. The short version with more memes and quotes and information can be found here , and t he longest version (a series of posts full of many more Calvinist comments, my Calvinist ex-pastor's sermons, and my replies to them, written for my own amusement and for my ex-church) can be found by starting here . But this tiny version includes only the most basic parts you need to know, with a few memes and quotes thrown in to spice it up and prove my points. (I know this could be much tinier, but Calvinism has so many bunny trails, so many interlocking ideas, that it's hard to address one part without addressing more. So this is as comprehensively tiny as I dared to make it.) ] At the heart of Calvinism is predestination and God's sovereignty (among other things, like "total depravity"), which according to Calvinism essentially amounts to: "God preplans and controls everything, even sin ...
[Happy Easter, y'all!] I just found this (sad!) on Reddit Reformed: What happened to my conviction and love for God? Reformedhabeshagirl said: Hello brothers and sisters I have always been a Christian and grew up fearing the Lord. I remember being convicted about my sins as young as 7 or 8 years old. I became Reformed around age 17 and I am 23 now. I have always been a repentant believer. My heart used to break when I sinned, and I love the Lord. I studied my Bible a lot, prayed often, and was very interested in theology, sermons, and everything related to faith. The problem is that my heart has lost all desire for the things I used to love. I stopped listening to sermons and I don’t want to study my Bible anymore. Any interest I had in Bible study or discussions about the Lord only came when my ex-boyfriend shared things with me every day or when it came from my pastor every Sunday. Now my heart feels hard. I am not convicted about the things I used to mourn over. I distanc...
I just gotta say that I feel pretty good today. It's been awhile since I've felt so ... relieved, I guess. And I think it really helped to vent the other day . To complain a bit. To not have to try so hard to filter everything I say. (And yet, I did filter. I was careful.) But it felt good to be honest. As honest as I could be. And it helped that an eye visit for two of my sons (right after I wrote that post)went well. Given all the "waiting for the next pummeling" that I tend to feel every day, I have a really hard time handling some of the most basic things that other people can easily handle. Last minute changes in plans throw me for a loop. Too many things scheduled in one week (say, 2-3 things) stresses me out. Being asked "How are you doing?" makes me want to activate my cloaking device. Allowing the kids to drive in a car with anyone other than me or my husband freaks me out. (I used to be...
6. A Calvinist says: "In the absence of faith, any exhortation to believe the Gospel would be fruitless. In the presence of faith, the preaching of the Gospel results in salvation." [My note: Calvinism teaches that the "elect" can only respond to the Gospel because God first gives them the faith to believe, that the Holy Spirit indwells them before they hear the Gospel in order to wake them up to spiritual things so that they can understand the Gospel, and all because they were "chosen" for salvation before time began. Therefore, faith and "being saved" and getting the Holy Spirit all come before hearing and responding to the Gospel. But then Calvinists will try to say that the Gospel is necessary for and leads to faith and salvation. Think about this for a moment. Seriously.] Someone (Aiden) then asks him: "If faith in the gospel can only come by hearing the gospel, how pray tell, do you [Calvinists] have faith comi...
I found a lot more names to add to my list of known Calvinists (found in my various "How to Tell if a Church, Pastor, or Website is Calvinist" posts). But instead of adding this huge list to all those posts, I am going to put it here, and I'll just provide a link on those posts to this one. [FYI: I added a note at the bottom of this post on May 5, 2021.] So here it is, a "master list" of known Calvinists to help you be careful and discerning about who you listen to and where you get your theology from. There are plenty more Calvinists out there, but these are just the names that I ran across the most. These are either definite, self-professed Calvinists or "most likely Calvinist," in my estimation. (I haven't heard of most of them, but it's good to know their theology before I do.) After finding these names in various places online, I looked up each person to see if they are Calvinist. If they did not self-identify ...
And even more Anti-Calvinism memes from other people (reposted in a shorter list) All you need to do ... 5 Points of Calvinism ... When The Bible Says ... Sorry Man ... Early Christians ... Yes, The Bible Teaches Calvinism ... Calvinists Say "Sovereignty" ... ... The Prodigal Son... Calvinist (a noun) ... Mind Blown ... Certain About Everything... Gospel vs Calvinism Infant Damnation ... Calvinism: Because ... Jerusalem, Jerusalem ... Calvin ... Finney ... May The Odds ... Finding Calvinism In The Bible Calvinism Peter Was Not A Calvinist The Gospel According To Calvinism I'm a Calvinist ...
In the post "Getting through the 'broken' times," I said that I had made a CD to listen to when anxiety hits. It has some of my favorite Christian songs on it. Here are as many of the songs as I could find online, plus some extra. Listen to some of them when anxiety threatens you. It really does help to hear godly truths spoken out loud (and to speak them out loud yourself). And personally, I think godly music helps repel evil, giving you some extra spiritual protection when you are most vulnerable. They don't like to hear God being praised and Truth being sung! (FYI: Videos are constantly being removed from online. So if the video is no longer available, type in the name and artist and see if you can find it. I simply can't keep up with replacing links.) From The City Harmonic: Love, Heal Me - The song that inspired the title of one of my blogs, Love, Heal Me - my heart's cry for the past year. Fell Apart - One...
It's so sad to hear about all the celebrities who have recently committed suicide (or about anyone who has committed suicide, for that matter). My heart breaks for them, for the pain they went through, and for the ones who love them, for the pain they are now going through. It is truly a tragedy. To anyone who is hurting really badly, who is struggling with overwhelming anxiety or depression, who is considering taking their own lives ... I dedicate this post. Please, take some time to look through some of the links here. This is a round-up of some on-line resources or posts about dealing with anxiety or depression, particularly as a Christian. But first: Quick tips for help: If you are desperate for some immediate help and don't want to look through the links I have below, try some of these (or if it's really bad and you think you might hurt yourself, call 911 or go to the emergency room): 1. Put on a worship song right now. Or sin...
God would never send a famine or economic distress to get our attention. God would never send disease to open our eyes to our bad choices and to call us to repentance. God would never use wars or violence to cause us to cry out to Him. God would never use a tornado, earthquake, or tsunami to draw our hearts back to Him. God is not like that. He is a soft, squishy, all-loving God who would never dream of punishing or disciplining or causing any kind of pain for us. He just wants us to be happy. He’s all about catering to our requests and pouring out His goodness on us and allowing us to live life on our own terms, because we are the center of the universe. We are the lords of our own lives. Aren’t we? Surely, in this day and age of rampant sexual diseases, violent wars, economic recession, famines, natural disasters, devastating consequences of our choices, etc., none of this has been allowed by God in order to ope...
A question popped into my head the other day as I was contemplating this whole "What if it is the end times?" thing. I was imagining what it would be like to "finish the race" - to finally run across the finish line into heaven and into the Lord's presence. I was thinking about what I would do in that moment. For years, I've imagined that I would cross that finish line ... and then I would immediately curl up into a ball all alone somewhere and just start sobbing. And I would cry and cry until I couldn't cry anymore. Life has been so ... I don't know ... full of struggle, I guess. Lots of feelings of failure and being not good enough and too many broken dreams and dashed hopes. I have run and run so hard sometimes that I have thoroughly exhausted myself. And lately, I have gone through intense times of anxiety and depression and extreme loneliness and pulling back more and more from people for various reasons. I mean, I ...