(Oh, how we love nonsense in our country!) We women are fighting so hard to be like men, to downplay femininity, to be perceived as more masculine, to overtake any "men's realm" we find. Because it’s “cool” and “progressive” and “strong.” But do we not realize that we are not “leveling the playing field” so much as we are destroying ourselves , the things that make women special? Women can be strong, too. And they don’t have to be like men to do it. Trust me, I know. I've had four children, one by c-section and three by natural, drug-free homebirth (with over 15 hours of labor for each one). And then I work in the home every day, all day long. No pay. No vacation time. No weekends off. No bonuses. No overtime pay. But I do it because my family and I value my position, my role. Even if the world doesn't. W e women can be strong and capable and accomplished in our...
(Written 6/15/18) Occasionally, I check in with the Christian Post to see what's going on in the world that specifically relates to Christians. And generally, I've never really had any red flags go up about this website ... until now. A recent article by Stoyan Zaimov, with a title that starts "Christian Lesbian rock star ..." goes on to share this woman's story about being assaulted by a male priest when she was young. However, I don't think the reason for this article is to talk about the abuse she suffered and her courage in speaking up. I think this is a deliberate attempt to affirm Christian homosexuality. The very fact that they put "Christian" and "lesbian" in the title makes it sound like it's indeed possible to be a Christian and a practicing homosexual who sees no need to change. And it seems to me that this article paints her in a heroic light, as though she is in the right and should be applauded and e...
This is the last half of the post "What's The Best Way To Make People Agree With Your Calvinist Views." But I put it here in its own post so that it's easier to find. These are some links to posts which are against Calvinism, the belief that the Bible teaches God has predetermined from the beginning of time who goes to heaven and who goes to hell. It's no secret from my writing that I strongly disagree with this view. I believe the Bible clearly teaches that God offers us all salvation, that Jesus's death paid for everyone's sins, and that we have to decide if we will accept Him or reject Him. And here is some of what others have to say about Calvinism: (FYI, I haven't read everything in all of these yet and I don't necessarily agree with every point they make, but I needed to link to them before I lost them online. And for the record, I came to my belief about what the Bible says by reading the Bible, not extra-biblical books or articles...
I woke up this morning with that sinking feeling of "Everything's going wrong in the world. Everything is falling apart." Falling apart? Or falling into place? I truly think we are headed towards the end times. In fact, I have been sure for years that it's almost here, whatever "almost" meant. And so none of what's going wrong in the world surprises me. I would actually be more surprised if the rapture doesn't happen by the end of the year than I would be if it did. But that's just me. Anyway, these songs were on my mind this morning, a comfort in troubling times (godly music, along with prayer and immersing yourself in God's Word, is one of the best ways to fill your heart with hope when the world offers none): Lord (I Don't Know) by Newsboys [We don't have to know what's going on or where it's all headed ... because it's enough that He knows!] Fell Apart by The City Harmonic [One of my favorite ope...
(Part of the "Predestination vs. Free-Will" series) Calvinists (those who believe in predestination, that we don’t have a real choice about salvation) – say that we have to evangelize and pray because God told us to and because God knew that this is how the lost would be saved. This is a pretty flimsy reason for evangelizing, given that (according to Calvinists) no one really has a choice about where their souls end up anyway. (And actually, they'll say that we do get a choice, that we freely, willingly choose according to our nature. But what they don't say is that God alone determines our nature, whether we get a new "saved" one or whether we have to keep the old "sinner" nature which can do nothing but sin and reject God. This is still God determining whether we believe or not, whether we sin or not. Don't buy into their double-talk.) If evangelizing didn’t really make a difference, then doing it j...
(I recently fixed the broken links as well as I could, had to switch some out for others) Tony Evans is my all-time favorite pastor. He always gives messages that convict, challenge, and comfort. Here are some sermons that I have listened to or am going to listen to. For more, simply go to his website by clicking here . There are so many great ones to choose from. You can't go wrong with any video of his. I found him to be the most biblically-accurate preacher (especially as I researched Calvinism and found out how wrong it is), who is also great at helping us practically apply God's truths to life. Reversing Anxiety Consequences Keeping the faith when life gets hard Trusting God in a storm How to have strength in your struggles How to overcome your worry How to Get Your Prayers Answered Trusting The God You Believe In God knows what He is doing How the enemy tries to distract you from God's plan Grab your sword The Secret to Powerful Prayer Spiritual W...
In the post "Getting through the 'broken' times," I said that I had made a CD to listen to when anxiety hits. It has some of my favorite Christian songs on it. Here are as many of the songs as I could find online, plus some extra. Listen to some of them when anxiety threatens you. It really does help to hear godly truths spoken out loud (and to speak them out loud yourself). And personally, I think godly music helps repel evil, giving you some extra spiritual protection when you are most vulnerable. They don't like to hear God being praised and Truth being sung! (FYI: Videos are constantly being removed from online. So if the video is no longer available, type in the name and artist and see if you can find it. I simply can't keep up with replacing links.) From The City Harmonic: Love, Heal Me - The song that inspired the title of one of my blogs, Love, Heal Me - my heart's cry for the past year. Fell Apart ...
In a couple posts I wrote ( "Are We Only Here For God's Glory? What About God's Love?" and "Calvinists, Altar Calls, and Evangelism" ), I looked at my Calvi-pastor's ( ex -pastor) reasons for evangelism. He (and maybe Calvinists in general) believes that God's main goal (and basically only goal) is to be famous and to get as much glory as He can for Himself. T his pastor reminds us often about God's glory being His biggest concern. And he wrote an article about "making God famous" being the main goal of evangelism, instead of something more like "sharing God's love and forgiveness with people, helping them find healing and hope in Jesus and leading them into a personal relationship with Him." (Yes, he does believe in calling people to repent, but he doesn't do altar calls or ask people if they want to accept Jesus as Lord and Savior, if they want to have a personal relationship with Jesus. Challenging people ...
I giggle making these. Helps me blow off steam. Only if you're elected ... So you're a Calvinist? Except for you ... "I love being a Calvinist" First I'll tell them ... Said Jesus Never! We Calvinists say ... The bookcase Researching John Calvin Snap Out Of It The Pro-Calvinism Meme Absolutely Sure ... Calvinist Lunatic If you want people ... Another Predestination Sermon It's called "Calvinism" Lucky Dude "All" Means "Some" God "In Control" "Total depravity" (AKA "Total Inability" - a concept NOT found in the Bible anywhere!) It's be...
In our house, we have something we used to call "The Special Plate," a plate that was unlike any other one we had. A one of a kind. And when the kids were little and one of them did something noteworthy or just needed an emotional boost, I would give that person the "special plate" at dinner, and everyone else would have to say something nice about them. With four boys, though, that worked for all of just a couple years. Before long, there'd always be one kid who could never think of something nice about anyone else, and another one who always gave out sarcastic, joke "compliments," and another one who got offended because no one would say anything nice about them. And so the "special plate" sat in the cabinet for a long time. Until it became the "elect plate." Now, the joke is that whoever gets it randomly at dinner (they can't choose to get it for themselves) is the "elect one," the one chosen by God for salva...