[I'm working my way through this slowly. Click here for part 1 and part 2 of this series.] First, here's The White Horse Parable again (my version): A man and his son owned a field that they farmed for a living. And one day, they found a white horse in the field. "Oh, what a blessing," said the farmer. "A free horse." But then the horse started tearing up their plants. "Oh, this is terrible. What a curse!" cried the farmer. But then they caught the horse and tamed it and were able to use it to farm the field. "Oh, what a blessing," said the farmer. But then the son was thrown off the horse, broke both arms, and couldn't farm for months, reducing their sales and income. "Oh, what a curse," said the farmer. "I wish this horse never came to us. Why, God? Why!?!" But then a war started, and the army issued a draft. But because the son had broken arms, he was excused from the draft and didn't have to f...
I watched this online Willow Creek sermon yesterday from a new series called The Jesus Way, about the Sermon on the Mount... and I just gotta share it because I haven't heard a sermon this good in awhile. In fact, it's one of the best I've heard in a long time. A great way to start 2026! Maybe it just said what I needed to hear at this point in my life. Maybe it won't speak to you the same way. But, who knows, maybe it will. Give it a try. What've you got to lose?
(repost, summary of “Understanding God’s Will,” Question 9, Q9a -Q9i) “‘Have faith in God,’ Jesus answered. ‘I tell you the truth, if anyone says to this mountain, ‘Go, throw yourself into the sea,’ and does not doubt in his heart but believes that what he says will happen, it will be done for him. Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.’” ( Mark 11:22-24 ) I have to be honest. I struggle with this verse more than any other. I really do. I mean, it sounds pretty straightforward to me: believe that you’ll get what you ask for and you’ll get it. Name it and claim it! Sounds great! But there’s a problem. ...
[This series is "The 9 Marks of a Calvinist Cult" split up into smaller, individual posts.] 3. Multiple Layers for Maximum Deception In Calvinism, there are always layers, at least two: the one they want you to see and the one they don't. What they say and what they mean. What they want you to think they really believe and what they really believe. If you read Piper's article , you'll notice how somewhat sweet and humble he makes his hard-core Calvinism seem. But do you notice what's missing? The flipside. The bad parts. The parts that would raise most Christians' red flags. The thing is, he's only sharing one layer of Calvinism, only telling the story from the side of the Calvinist elect and God's relationship to them. But he hides the deeper, darker layer, completely ignoring how God relates to the non-elect. If Calvinist teachings sound like "good news," it's only...
Here is the original section I wrote for my life story over at my other blog: I am also a Licensed Professional Counselor with a Master’s degree in Counseling Psychology. But that sounds more impressive than it really is, because I actually have very little counseling experience. And my first “attempt” at it wasn’t very impressive, either. My very first counseling job was, of course, as an intern. I was supposed to sit in with my supervisor as he counseled a reluctant teen boy. And I was hugely pregnant with my first child. Before going into the counseling room, I was passing through the office when a bowl of butterscotch candies called out to me, “Heather, you want one of us! We look good, don’t we? Go ahead, take one! The baby wants butterscotch!” A little voice in my head said, “Don’t do it.” But did I listen? No! I grabbed a piece and popped it in my mouth. After all, I was just ...
So get this: An Arizona elementary school should not hire teachers with Christian values because it doesn't feel "safe"... so says the self-proclaimed "queer" schoolboard member wearing cat ears . ( See here .)
Introduction I'm starting a series of posts on a great new video from Alana L.: 5 Signs Your Loved One is Becoming a Calvinist I've been wanting someone to make a video like this for awhile now - to help people recognize Calvinism when they hear it, to help them realize it's a big deal that they should take seriously and research, and to help them know why it's wrong and how it spreads. Those who've studied against Calvinism know how very tricksy it is. But those who don't know anything about it, or how to recognize it, or how it takes over, or how it sounds like it's teaching one thing when it's really teaching something totally different, or how it twists or misinterprets Scripture... well, they are sitting ducks, fish in a barrel who become easy targets for a Calvinist pastor (especially a stealth Calvinist pastor) who slowly and strategically indoctrinates them into this twisted theology, before they ever see it coming, like boiling...
(Published on my other blog in 2015. And it's only gotten so much worse since then.) As our society seems to be going to “hell in a hand-basket,” do you ever wonder where God is in all of this? The economy sucks. Our religious rights are being trimmed away. Schools are focusing less on academics and more on creating an anti-God worldview and the “morality” and social characteristics that they want. Laws are being made which are having detrimental impacts on people, families, businesses, and economics. Morality and modesty are “old-fashioned” concepts. Flagrant sexuality is rampant, and society encourages it as being “open-minded, progressive, and ...
(Reposted from last year and retold in various other posts. I may just repost this one yearly at this time of year.) In “honor” of Halloween (a day that deserves no honor), I’m gonna share with you why we don’t celebrate Halloween. (We take our kids to a movie instead, or buy a movie they’ve been wanting and have a “family movie night” with candy and popcorn. So no need to feel sorry for them; they are not deprived.) I don’t expect anyone to believe me, but I’m going to share my story. (And for the longer version of this story on my other blog, click here .) It’s my story about how I came to fully trust in Jesus’s name and to passionately cling to Him, to never be able to doubt the existence of a spirit world, to place such a high priority on prayer and God’s Word, and to always remember my need for spiritual armor. And once again, you don’t have to believe me. (But don’t say I never warned you. And if you are ...
I was thinking last night about how Calvinists think that free-will is the big reason other people don't want to believe in Calvinism, as in "Well, you don't like the idea of not being in control of your own choices, and so that's why you won't accept Calvinism." They use this to shame anti-Calvinists, such as when my Calvi-pastor at our ex-church would say these things in sermons: "Most Americans have a hard time accepting God's sovereignty [a Calvinist's definition of it!]. They don't like the idea of someone being in authority over them. They like to think they are in control of themselves, self-sufficient, standing on their own two feet. And so they won't humble themselves before Him. They resist the idea of God being in control over them, of His sovereignty, because they like their free-will too much." But you know what? It's not about free-will. My biggest grievance against Calvinism is not about a desire to have...